I wouldn't think Pattaya is a honeymoon destination because I think Pattaya is a hole.
God knows I am very broad minded but to me it's not a couples holiday, straight or otherwise. Miles and miles of girly bars and a thousands of guys on sex holidays but each to their own.
I certainly wasn't concerned with my husband straying off for a message with or with out 'happy ending'.
However, if you do decide Pattaya is for you I can recommend the Rabbit Resort, the owner, an American lady Deb is wonderful and nothing is too much trouble for her and her staff.
Another good hotel is the Woodlands.
Cheers Geri