Yeah Den, I seen plenty of these arguements too, especially at Pattaya. I was having a massage once when a big Russian woman stormed in and started blasting her hubby who was having a massage behind the curtain next to me. Where a lot of guys screw up is when they slip away from the wife and go around the bars they give the gals their real names, they next day when they're walking down the Walking Street with the farang wife the Thai bargals call out his name "Hey Bill, how you today? I miss you Bill"
Best to use a false name in the bars and then you can just ignore this.