What a rotten time for all of you. I don't suppose any of us can say how we would react unless it happened to us.
This all just re-enforces how this is not a dress rehearsal and you have to take everything that you can. When you find out you are going to die, if you find out, it is too late then to do all those things that you wanted.
Live the dream don't dream the dream
Hence my signature.
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Kiss
God laughs at people who make plans.