If I were going to stay in Bali and stay ethically, that is not staying at any hotel owned or part owned by a notorious Javanese family and / or one with questionable building permits perhaps issues against the better interests of the Balinese generally or the original Balinese land owner, I would never stay at any of the hotels you mentioned, ever. Our reservations site (where all direct earnings go to children's charities) now asks ethics questions of hotels and villas in Bali; Travel Ethos, but many decline to answer!

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