as Bob points out, many things as people's perverse thoughts make them to be. in discussion the other night w/Bob, we agreed, neither had seen anything inappropriate since being here, me 8 yrs, Bob, much longer. also compare notes of friends, mine, his daughter 16 ish, and when walking in mall w/dad, like to hold his hand, which he knows brings out many negative thought in wandering minds.
my 1st wfe was 21 when i met here, looked much younger, myself, 45 at the time. a young handsome 45, but still, felt strange as that is the youngest person i had ever dated/age gap wise. but then soon realized it was not strange at all, and quite accepted/tolerated, as noticing many thai/thai relationships after being here a while, with large age gaps. some relationships of love/security, others, well, something extra for both, but mutual consenting adults.
i see adults with children, i smile, not sure what others see. obviously i don't see/notice any inappropriate behavior, or i would intercede myself or get police involved.
Last edited by la; 2nd July 2009 at 12:13 PM.
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